Uncomfortable Is Not the Same as Abandoned

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Amanda Lack brought the message this Sunday while Brian and Lissa were away conducting a wedding. She walked through the story of Jesus in the wilderness from Matthew 4, using it to reframe how the congregation thinks about hard seasons, not as punishment or abandonment, but as something God uses on purpose. Amanda opened by asking the room for an immediate gut reaction: is the wilderness good or...

Read together

1. Luke 6:24-27 Amanda cited the woe to you passages where Jesus lists comforts, saying she does not want to be in the woe to you column
2. Matthew 4:1-11 the main text read aloud, covering Jesus being led into the wilderness and the three temptations
3. Matthew 3, final verses read to show what happened right before the wilderness, the baptism of Jesus and the Father declaring this is my dearly loved son
4. Matthew 4:12 read to show what happened right after the wilderness, Jesus begins his ministry
5. Deuteronomy 8:2-5 read to parallel the Israelites in the wilderness with Jesus, God humbling and testing them to know what was in their heart
6. Psalm 139 Amanda referenced the end of it where David asks God to test him and know his heart
7. Psalm 91 identified as the source Satan quoted partially and out of context in the second temptation
8. 1 Corinthians 10:13 quoted to show God will not let anyone be tempted beyond what they can bear and will provide a way out
9. 1 Peter 4:12 cited to say we should not be surprised when trials come and test us
10. John 16:33 quoted as Jesus saying in this world you will have trouble but take heart I have overcome the world
11. Romans 5:3 quoted to show suffering produces endurance which produces character which produces hope
12. James 1:4 cited as count it joy when trials come because it produces patience making us complete and lacking nothing
13. James 4:7 quoted in full, submit yourself to God then resist the devil and he will flee, noting people often leave out the first part
14. 1 Kings 19 referenced to show Elijah under the broom tree saying he had had enough and asking God to take his life
15. Psalm 34:18 quoted as the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit

What was said

• Read Matthew 4:1-11 on your own this week and sit with the three temptations, asking the Holy Spirit to show you which one hits closest to home for you right now.
• If you are in a hard season, reach out to one person in your life this week so you are not going through it alone, because isolation is one of the enemy's clearest tactics.
• Pick up James 4:7 and read the whole verse, not just the second half, and spend a few minutes in honest prayer submitting whatever you are wrestling with to God before you try to resist anything.
• Do a simple word study or search on the number 40 in the Bible and see what you find, as Amanda suggested from the pulpit.
• Use Sunday's teaching on the wilderness as a starting point for your own Bible reading this week, following a thread that caught your attention and digging further into it on your own.

Talk about it

1. Amanda said that being uncomfortable is not the same as being abandoned. Has there been a time in your life when you confused the two, and what helped you tell the difference?
2. The Israelites had an eleven-day journey that took forty years because they did not do the wilderness right. What do you think doing the wilderness wrong looks like in a person's everyday life?
3. Satan attacked Jesus at the moment he was physically weakest, and he opened by questioning the identity God had just declared over Jesus at his baptism. Where do you tend to feel most vulnerable to having your identity questioned, and what does that usually sound like in your own head?
4. The group noticed that Satan's three temptations seemed to start small and get more obvious as Jesus kept resisting. Have you seen that pattern in your own experience, where the enemy eventually overplayed his hand?
5. Amanda closed by saying the wilderness is not a place of punishment but a place of preparation. What do you think God might be preparing you for in whatever hard season you are in right now, or have recently come through?