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Philippians 4:6-7 quoted during the open sharing time about not worrying, praying about everything, and experiencing God's peace
6 In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.
7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
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Colossians 3:16
let the words of Christ live in your heart and make you wise
16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your heart to the Lord.
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Genesis 1:27-31
God created human beings male and female, blessed them, told them to be fruitful and multiply
27 God created man in his own image. In God’s image he created him; male and female he created them.
28 God blessed them. God said to them, “Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth, and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”
29 God said, “Behold, I have given you every herb yielding seed, which is on the surface of all the earth, and every tree, which bears fruit yielding seed. It will be your food.
30 To every animal of the earth, and to every bird of the sky, and to everything that creeps on the earth, in which there is life, I have given every green herb for food;” and it was so.
31 God saw everything that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. There was evening and there was morning, a sixth day.
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Proverbs 22
do not move the ancient boundary stone set by your ancestors
1 A good name is more desirable than great riches, and loving favor is better than silver and gold.
2 The rich and the poor have this in common: Yahweh is the maker of them all.
3 A prudent man sees danger, and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it.
4 The result of humility and the fear of Yahweh is wealth, honor, and life.
5 Thorns and snares are in the path of the wicked: whoever guards his soul stays from them.
6 Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
7 The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender.
8 He who sows wickedness reaps trouble, and the rod of his fury will be destroyed.
9 He who has a generous eye will be blessed; for he shares his food with the poor.
10 Drive out the mocker, and strife will go out; yes, quarrels and insults will stop.
11 He who loves purity of heart and speaks gracefully is the king’s friend.
12 Yahweh’s eyes watch over knowledge; but he frustrates the words of the unfaithful.
13 The sluggard says, “There is a lion outside! I will be killed in the streets!”
14 The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit. He who is under Yahweh’s wrath will fall into it.
15 Folly is bound up in the heart of a child: the rod of discipline drives it far from him.
16 Whoever oppresses the poor for his own increase and whoever gives to the rich, both come to poverty.
17 Turn your ear, and listen to the words of the wise. Apply your heart to my teaching.
18 For it is a pleasant thing if you keep them within you, if all of them are ready on your lips.
19 I teach you today, even you, So that your trust may be in Yahweh.
20 Haven’t I written to you thirty excellent things of counsel and knowledge,
21 To teach you truth, reliable words, to give sound answers to the ones who sent you?
22 Don’t exploit the poor, because he is poor; and don’t crush the needy in court;
23 for Yahweh will plead their case, and plunder the life of those who plunder them.
24 Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger:
25 lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul.
26 Don’t you be one of those who strike hands, of those who are collateral for debts.
27 If you don’t have means to pay, why should he take away your bed from under you?
28 Don’t move the ancient boundary stone, which your fathers have set up.
29 Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve kings. He won’t serve obscure men.
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Romans 1:18-32
people suppressing the truth, God abandoning them to shameful desires, society growing dark and foolish when rejecting God
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,
19 because that which is known of God is revealed in them, for God revealed it to them.
20 For the invisible things of him since the creation of the world are clearly seen, being perceived through the things that are made, even his everlasting power and divinity; that they may be without excuse.
21 Because, knowing God, they didn’t glorify him as God, neither gave thanks, but became vain in their reasoning, and their senseless heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,
23 and traded the glory of the incorruptible God for the likeness of an image of corruptible man, and of birds, and four-footed animals, and creeping things.
24 Therefore God also gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to uncleanness, that their bodies should be dishonored among themselves;
25 who exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
26 For this reason, God gave them up to vile passions. For their women changed the natural function into that which is against nature.
27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural function of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another, men doing what is inappropriate with men, and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error.
28 Even as they refused to have God in their knowledge, God gave them up to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not fitting;
29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, malice; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil habits, secret slanderers,
30 backbiters, hateful to God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, unforgiving, unmerciful;
32 who, knowing the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but also approve of those who practice them.
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John 14
Jesus says I am the truth
1 “Don’t let your heart be troubled. Believe in God. Believe also in me.
2 In my Father’s house are many homes. If it weren’t so, I would have told you. I am going to prepare a place for you.
3 If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and will receive you to myself; that where I am, you may be there also.
4 Where I go, you know, and you know the way.”
5 Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going. How can we know the way?”
6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
7 If you had known me, you would have known my Father also. From now on, you know him, and have seen him.”
8 Philip said to him, “Lord, show us the Father, and that will be enough for us.”
9 Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you such a long time, and do you not know me, Philip? He who has seen me has seen the Father. How do you say, ‘Show us the Father?’
10 Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? The words that I tell you, I speak not from myself; but the Father who lives in me does his works.
11 Believe me that I am in the Father, and the Father in me; or else believe me for the very works’ sake.
12 Most certainly I tell you, he who believes in me, the works that I do, he will do also; and he will do greater works than these, because I am going to my Father.
13 Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
14 If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.
15 If you love me, keep my commandments.
16 I will pray to the Father, and he will give you another Counselor, that he may be with you forever,—
17 the Spirit of truth, whom the world can’t receive; for it doesn’t see him, neither knows him. You know him, for he lives with you, and will be in you.
18 I will not leave you orphans. I will come to you.
19 Yet a little while, and the world will see me no more; but you will see me. Because I live, you will live also.
20 In that day you will know that I am in my Father, and you in me, and I in you.
21 One who has my commandments, and keeps them, that person is one who loves me. One who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him, and will reveal myself to him.”
22 Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, “Lord, what has happened that you are about to reveal yourself to us, and not to the world?”
23 Jesus answered him, “If a man loves me, he will keep my word. My Father will love him, and we will come to him, and make our home with him.
24 He who doesn’t love me doesn’t keep my words. The word which you hear isn’t mine, but the Father’s who sent me.
25 I have said these things to you, while still living with you.
26 But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things, and will remind you of all that I said to you.
27 Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, give I to you. Don’t let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful.
28 You heard how I told you, ‘I go away, and I come to you.’ If you loved me, you would have rejoiced, because I said ‘I am going to my Father;’ for the Father is greater than I.
29 Now I have told you before it happens so that, when it happens, you may believe.
30 I will no more speak much with you, for the prince of the world comes, and he has nothing in me.
31 But that the world may know that I love the Father, and as the Father commanded me, even so I do. Arise, let us go from here.
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John 12
Jesus says he only speaks with his father's authority
1 Then six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, who had been dead, whom he raised from the dead.
2 So they made him a supper there. Martha served, but Lazarus was one of those who sat at the table with him.
3 Mary, therefore, took a pound of ointment of pure nard, very precious, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the ointment.
4 Then Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son, one of his disciples, who would betray him, said,
5 “Why wasn’t this ointment sold for three hundred denarii, and given to the poor?”
6 Now he said this, not because he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and having the money box, used to steal what was put into it.
7 But Jesus said, “Leave her alone. She has kept this for the day of my burial.
8 For you always have the poor with you, but you don’t always have me.”
9 A large crowd therefore of the Jews learned that he was there, and they came, not for Jesus’ sake only, but that they might see Lazarus also, whom he had raised from the dead.
10 But the chief priests conspired to put Lazarus to death also,
11 because on account of him many of the Jews went away and believed in Jesus.
12 On the next day a great multitude had come to the feast. When they heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem,
13 they took the branches of the palm trees, and went out to meet him, and cried out, “Hosanna! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord, the King of Israel!”
14 Jesus, having found a young donkey, sat on it. As it is written,
15 “Don’t be afraid, daughter of Zion. Behold, your King comes, sitting on a donkey’s colt.”
16 His disciples didn’t understand these things at first, but when Jesus was glorified, then they remembered that these things were written about him, and that they had done these things to him.
17 The multitude therefore that was with him when he called Lazarus out of the tomb, and raised him from the dead, was testifying about it.
18 For this cause also the multitude went and met him, because they heard that he had done this sign.
19 The Pharisees therefore said among themselves, “See how you accomplish nothing. Behold, the world has gone after him.”
20 Now there were certain Greeks among those that went up to worship at the feast.
21 These, therefore, came to Philip, who was from Bethsaida of Galilee, and asked him, saying, “Sir, we want to see Jesus.”
22 Philip came and told Andrew, and in turn, Andrew came with Philip, and they told Jesus.
23 Jesus answered them, “The time has come for the Son of Man to be glorified.
24 Most certainly I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains by itself alone. But if it dies, it bears much fruit.
25 He who loves his life will lose it. He who hates his life in this world will keep it to eternal life.
26 If anyone serves me, let him follow me. Where I am, there will my servant also be. If anyone serves me, the Father will honor him.
27 “Now my soul is troubled. What shall I say? ‘Father, save me from this time?’ But for this cause I came to this time.
28 Father, glorify your name!” Then there came a voice out of the sky, saying, “I have both glorified it, and will glorify it again.”
29 The multitude therefore, who stood by and heard it, said that it had thundered. Others said, “An angel has spoken to him.”
30 Jesus answered, “This voice hasn’t come for my sake, but for your sakes.
31 Now is the judgment of this world. Now the prince of this world will be cast out.
32 And I, if I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself.”
33 But he said this, signifying by what kind of death he should die.
34 The multitude answered him, “We have heard out of the law that the Christ remains forever. How do you say, ‘The Son of Man must be lifted up?’ Who is this Son of Man?”
35 Jesus therefore said to them, “Yet a little while the light is with you. Walk while you have the light, that darkness doesn’t overtake you. He who walks in the darkness doesn’t know where he is going.
36 While you have the light, believe in the light, that you may become children of light.” Jesus said these things, and he departed and hid himself from them.
37 But though he had done so many signs before them, yet they didn’t believe in him,
38 that the word of Isaiah the prophet might be fulfilled, which he spoke, “Lord, who has believed our report? To whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?”
39 For this cause they couldn’t believe, for Isaiah said again,
40 “He has blinded their eyes and he hardened their heart, lest they should see with their eyes, and perceive with their heart, and would turn, and I would heal them.”
41 Isaiah said these things when he saw his glory, and spoke of him.
42 Nevertheless even of the rulers many believed in him, but because of the Pharisees they didn’t confess it, so that they wouldn’t be put out of the synagogue,
43 for they loved men’s praise more than God’s praise.
44 Jesus cried out and said, “Whoever believes in me, believes not in me, but in him who sent me.
45 He who sees me sees him who sent me.
46 I have come as a light into the world, that whoever believes in me may not remain in the darkness.
47 If anyone listens to my sayings, and doesn’t believe, I don’t judge him. For I came not to judge the world, but to save the world.
48 He who rejects me, and doesn’t receive my sayings, has one who judges him. The word that I spoke, the same will judge him in the last day.
49 For I spoke not from myself, but the Father who sent me, he gave me a commandment, what I should say, and what I should speak.
50 I know that his commandment is eternal life. The things therefore which I speak, even as the Father has said to me, so I speak.”
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Matthew 19:4-5
Jesus says from the beginning God made them male and female, a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife
4 He answered, “Haven’t you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female,
5 and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’
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Zephaniah 3:11
God will quiet you with his love and exalt over you with singing
11 In that day you will not be disappointed for all your doings, in which you have transgressed against me; for then I will take away out from among you your proudly exulting ones, and you will no more be haughty in my holy mountain.
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Psalm 139
psalmist prays Lord search my heart and point out anything that offends you
1 Yahweh, you have searched me, and you know me.
2 You know my sitting down and my rising up. You perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You search out my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways.
4 For there is not a word on my tongue, but, behold, Yahweh, you know it altogether.
5 You hem me in behind and before. You laid your hand on me.
6 This knowledge is beyond me. It’s lofty. I can’t attain it.
7 Where could I go from your Spirit? Or where could I flee from your presence?
8 If I ascend up into heaven, you are there. If I make my bed in Sheol, behold, you are there!
9 If I take the wings of the dawn, and settle in the uttermost parts of the sea;
10 Even there your hand will lead me, and your right hand will hold me.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will overwhelm me; the light around me will be night”;
12 even the darkness doesn’t hide from you, but the night shines as the day. The darkness is like light to you.
13 For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well.
15 My frame wasn’t hidden from you, when I was made in secret, woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my body. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is their sum!
18 If I would count them, they are more in number than the sand. When I wake up, I am still with you.
19 If only you, God, would kill the wicked. Get away from me, you bloodthirsty men!
20 For they speak against you wickedly. Your enemies take your name in vain.
21 Yahweh, don’t I hate those who hate you? Am I not grieved with those who rise up against you?
22 I hate them with perfect hatred. They have become my enemies.
23 Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts.
24 See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way.
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Recap
The message in order, in a few minutes of reading.
This Mother's Day message was preached by Pastor Brian at the Virginian Hotel, where Tribe met for the first time as a test drive for a potential new space. He used the occasion to define what God says about women and biological sex before honoring mothers and women in the way he felt Scripture called for. The message moved from Genesis through Romans and into the Gospels, ending with a personal reflection on what it means to protect and celebrate the women God has designed.
What was said
Pastor Brian opened by acknowledging the unusual setting, a bar on a Sunday morning, and said it didn't bother him at all because the church is a community of people, not a building. He noted the Virginian was being evaluated as a potential home for Tribe, with five criteria needing to line up: the right location in Jackson Hole, adequate adult space, adequate children's space, parking, and the right price.
Before getting to the celebration of Mother's Day, Pastor Brian said he felt it was necessary to slow down and define terms, not according to popular opinion but according to the God who created what we are defining. He read from Genesis chapter one, where God creates human beings male and female, and said that passage establishes two biological sexes as God's design.
He then turned to a verse in Proverbs about not moving ancient boundary stones, the markers that in ancient Israel defined each family's allotted land. He used that image to name what he sees happening in the current cultural moment: boundary stones established by God, not by any county survey or culture, are being moved. He said he was not making a political statement or targeting any individual or group, but was addressing an ideology he believes Scripture speaks to directly.
He read Romans chapter one, verses 18 through 32, and said Paul addressed two thousand years ago the same dynamic Tribe faces today. When a society suppresses the truth about God and turns to worship what is created rather than the creator, he said the text shows that God gives that society over to increasingly dark, confused, and foolish thinking. He applied that to the current cultural difficulty in even stating a common-sense definition of a woman.
Pastor Brian said that as a biological man, a husband, and a father, something rises up in him when he sees those boundary stones moved, not because his daughter is helpless, but because Scripture places on men a specific responsibility to affirm what God has set, so that women can flourish to their fullest potential. He was careful to say his daughter is fierce and tenacious, and that women carry a strength men would buckle under. The responsibility he described is not about women needing men to be complete, but about men being accountable to uphold what God established.
He then pointed to Jesus in Matthew chapter 19, where Jesus himself affirms that from the beginning God made them male and female, and in John chapter 14, where Jesus says he is the truth. He noted that Jesus gave what he called a reverse altar call, loving people enough to speak hard things and then respecting their choice to walk away. He also noted how Jesus treated women in first-century Judea, a culture where a woman's testimony was not even admissible in court, by respecting them, listening to them, trusting them, and healing them.
Pastor Brian closed the loop by answering the question he opened with. We celebrate women and mothers, he said, because we honor God when we recognize his sovereign design. He invited anyone who felt angry or unsettled by the message to bring that directly to God, citing Zephaniah 3:11 and the promise that God will quiet them with his love.
Touch points
Things you could actually do this week.
- Fill out the small group interest card and leave it at the front so the leadership team can plan something meaningful for this summer.
- Block off June 25 through 28 on your calendar and plan to join the trip to Riverton to help with kids VBS on the reservation.
- If you woke up this morning feeling offended or unsettled by something, bring that directly to God and ask him to search your heart the way Psalm 139 describes.
- Text your mom today and tell her you love her, even if you already did it this morning.
- If you need prayer before you leave, find someone wearing a lanyard and let them pray with you rather than walking out carrying something heavy on your own.
Doing a Bible study?
Here is a guide we have prepared for you: the passages in order, questions for the group, and room to write.
- Brian talked about the church meeting in a bar in Amsterdam and said 'the church is not a building, the church is a community and a collective of people.' What does that mean practically for how you think about Tribe and what we do together outside of Sunday mornings?
- Brian read from Genesis 1 and said God created human beings male and female, and that women express some of God's nature through their distinct traits and attributes. What do you think that looks like, and where have you seen it?
and 3 more questions in the guide
Resumen en español
El mensaje resumido, en español.
El domingo de las madres, Pastor Brian reunió a la congregación en el Virginian Hotel, un espacio nuevo que están evaluando como posible sede para Tribe. Antes de hablar sobre las madres, dedicó tiempo a definir términos según lo que dice Dios, no según la cultura. A partir de Génesis, señaló que Dios creó a los seres humanos como hombre y mujer, y que esa distinción es un diseño establecido por él desde el principio. Comparó ese diseño con los mojones antiguos que delimitaban la tierra de cada familia en Israel: moverlos era un acto de engaño con consecuencias graves. Pastor Brian dejó claro que no apuntaba a ninguna persona ni partido político, sino a una ideología que, según él, está corriendo esos límites.
Luego leyó Romanos capítulo uno para mostrar que Pablo ya describía hace dos mil años lo que sucede cuando una sociedad rechaza a Dios: la mente se oscurece, se confunde y cae en necedad. Pastor Brian habló desde su propia experiencia, admitiendo que él mismo adoró las montañas de Wyoming en lugar de al Creador, hasta que Jesús lo incluyó, lo escuchó y lo sanó. Señaló que Jesús honró a las mujeres de una manera radical para su época, aceptando su testimonio y hablando con ellas cuando la cultura las descartaba. Esa es la razón, dijo, por la que celebrar a las madres y a las mujeres es también una forma de honrar el diseño soberano de Dios.
Al cerrar, Pastor Brian invitó a quienes se sintieran molestos o confundidos a llevar esa incomodidad directamente a Dios, citando Sofonías, donde dice que él aquieta con su amor. Los niños de Tribe Kids subieron al escenario a compartir algo especial por el día de las madres, y se repartieron regalos a todas las mamás presentes. La iglesia también anunció un viaje de VBS a la reservación en Riverton a finales de junio.
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Pasajes bíblicos usados
- Génesis 1:27-31
- Proverbios 22 (sobre no mover los mojones antiguos)
- Romanos 1:18-32
- Juan 14 (Jesús dice "Yo soy la verdad")
- Juan 12 (Jesús habla con la autoridad del Padre)
- Mateo 19:4-5
- Sofonías 3:11
- Salmos 139 (al final, oración pidiendo a Dios que escudriñe el corazón)
